Count Me In! home
OPC logo
About Us
Tools for an Inclusive Ontario
Count Me In! Forums
Resources on Inclusion
Sign Up for E-Mail Updates

 

 

 

Count Me In! Forums

Ajax - January 4, 2006

Notes

Words from intro exercise (string exercise):
Connecting
Comfort
Everybody has a place
Togetherness
Empathy
Meeting the needs of communities
Culturally sensitive
Loving
Equity
Respecting others
Courage
Valuing each other’s gifts
Understanding
Welcoming
Diversity
Tolerance
Empowerment
Equality

Reflection: If inclusion is the answer, what are the questions?

  • How do we respect everyone’s definition of inclusion?
  • How do go beyond the barriers that exist to promote inclusion while respecting cultural and ethnic differences?  How do we encourage inclusion and healthy living if it’s in contrast to a group’s cultural beliefs & values?
  • How do we demonstrate inclusiveness in each of our agencies?  What do we do to show it?
  • How does one recognize when inclusion is not occurring or it not successful?  How do you identify areas of weakness?
  • What are the questions we have to ask to start with, to meet the needs of those who are excluded?  We start with our own assumptions. What do [the excluded] require in order to be included?  Assume it’s different depending on whom you are addressing
  • How do you work with those who are extremists, e.g. neo-Nazis and other difficult groups?
  • How does one get around the systemic barriers to inclusion?  For example, the inability to find a family doctor, which can be hard for lifelong Canadians let alone new immigrants who may not speak English.  There is barrier upon barrier, creating a vicious circle of bad health.  As an individual you can feel very powerless to remove those systemic barriers that face people. How do we influence the process so we can make positive changes?
  • What can we do to minimize or erase the insignificance or inferiority that some groups in our society are continually made to feel?
  • Inclusion starts with just one person.  Sometimes you can get overwhelmed worrying about government policies and the bigger picture and you forget it starts with just one person who walks through your door:  you look at them as an individual and it’s that one first step to inclusion.  If people focus on the individual instead of the broad worldview, on how you respond to that individual, if you work on that premise, then one at a time, you’ve started down the path to inclusion.
  • In a fragmented community & society, how do we get there?
  • How do we collaborate as community agencies to help inclusion?  Each agency deals with one need and we all need to work together.  How do we work individually, as agencies and in partnerships?
  • How do we get to where people are really valued as they sit at the table?  Sometimes people are there but are not truly valued.
  • How do we approach those in our communities that are exhibiting behaviour that doesn’t represent inclusivity at its best?  Not racism etc., but people who make it clear there’s “us” and “them” – who think they’re doing something to contribute, but there’s a line drawn.  How do you deal with that effectively?
  • How do we get through to those who exclude?  Systematically or on a minor level, like getting picked on a baseball team – that counts too!  It’s an interplay between the large stuff and the small stuff.
  • Low expectations of people because they’re hearing impaired/immigrant – these things have nothing to do with what they can contribute.  How do you address that?
  • Stereotyping – people seen as “less than” because others haven’t taken the time to find out what they have to contribute [and/or] they aren’t given the opportunity to express that.
  • In my daytime work life I can be inclusive, but when I go home do I still have to be inclusive?  Who am I in all of this?

Current reality:  the feeling and reality of belonging in Durham

In relation to your work in Durham, deliberate at each table.  Have a very specific conversation together using World/Conversation Café so each person has a voice.  Find something on your table that is a talking object, and choose a table host/hostess to guide the process. 

First round – take turns speaking one person at a time, talking about where Durham is inclusive.  It helps to be specific.

Some comments:

  • The school system is doing a great job including immigrant & physically disabled children
  • Durham communities are separate, but inclusive within themselves (on average!  Except Pickering…)
  • Need to put our money where our mouths are
  • Media is crisis-focused – they don’t know what would be helpful [information to convey]
  • Service accessibility is theoretically high, but doesn’t necessarily meet actual needs, although services strive to be inclusive
  • Post-NAFTA older workers were surprised/excluded in the 80s by the need for retraining [after factories closed]
  • There are many different cultures – because of immigration, change is happening – these groups’ culture and values need to be understood.  Adjustment can be an issue!  But immigrant groups need to work on integration too.
  • Cultural diversity – younger people have fewer issues (less fear)
  • [As a service provider,] balance between the daily work and strategic direction can be difficult.

 

Where do you see inclusive aspects in Durham? 

  • How do we reach those who don’t think in terms of service all the time – the GM workers, etc.? How to we promote inclusivity to them?
  • Durham is such a large geographic area – how do we link it to feel like a community?
  • Various groups are looking at co-locating domestic violence services – they’re all talking together, meeting in contributed space (a church)
  • Inclusivity is at its initial stages in Durham.  Young people have a more inclusive culture that will grow [through society] in time.
  • Nobody’s looking outside their comfort zone to offer services to other, currently invisible/underserved groups
  • The experience of exclusion is not always visible, e.g. mental health. Invisible exclusions can be even more difficult.
  • We don’t know what communities need until we ask the questions
  • Cultural groups are not taking leadership – would like to see those groups have higher awareness.
  • Too many silos.

Share back from tables:

  • There are lots of wonderful things going on, but not all of us know what’s going on. Each of us has to be involved as possible so we can share information and help others feel like a part of the community as well. It’s especially useful to help marginalized people be aware of things that are available. 
  • We only think about needs, not assets and gifts people bring. How do we categorize those gifts so [people] get invited where they can be appreciated?
  • Inclusive environments in Durham schools – some are positive, some are a concern. Geographical boundaries can be difficult – areas in the east can be totally exclusive. Many agencies focus more on financial aspect, less on inclusivity. Lots of talk about barriers.
  • Barriers:  poverty; different things that are invisible, like mental health.

RLK - Some themes:

  • institutions – not enough outreach/integration, although some are making internal efforts (notable: school system, churches/religious, police)
  • cultural diversity – immigration – need for work on both sides; some element of fear (not in the group, but in [parts of] the community)
  • silos (geographic, agency, cultural)
  • positive feeling about youth, that they are more inclusive and this will change Durham over time

Share back – what are we sure about?:

  • feeling of belonging – there are clubs, orgs, centres spread over the region, and those who go to them feel a sense of belonging.  Difficulty is that if you’re not part of it, you’re on the outside.  How to encourage more people to get involved as per their liking?
  • Culture of Peace committee – one person’s leadership, cross-sectoral/racial group – good model
  • Commissioner of social services believes a caring community begins in the workplace, treat people like they are the experts in their own lives
  • How do we build awareness in people in businesses (who have great opportunities to include)?
  • lots of good Durham initiatives e.g. cdn cancer society amalgamated 2 locations & Durham will have its very own cancer clinic, DRIVEN (collaboration re domestic violence), regional transit involving multiple agencies, culturally sensitive food and nutrition programmes. Also talked about barriers e.g. housing (large houses being built are not suited to young people, so they must leave). Lots of good things happening in Durham.

What are we not so sure about?

  • when you’re not providing people with basic needs, programs may not work (e.g. taking bus passes away from Ontario Works clients – they can’t get there, so why bother having the program?)
  • different levels of funding from different government branches (and different focus) cause gaps in services (fragmentation)
  • people are put in powerful administrative positions who know precious little of the issues… it’s a concern
  • lot of siloing of service.  We’re not always aware of some excellent thing because we’re not at the same table. When you’re competing for funding, it’s not always in your interest to share the “Cadbury’s secret”.  So some things are an afterthought based on funding decisions, and siloing is a systemic problem that works against cooperation.
  • Inclusion is great when they walk through the door, but it’s being able to be part of the group REALLY and not just in name.  Once you’re in the door, then what? 

How do people get the opportunity to define whether they’re included and how they want to be included?  How do we ask those questions?  (refer to workbook)

Sense of what we’ve done / how things are going?

  • talked about what good things are happening, where we’re doing things well and where there are gaps to bridge
  • challenge is that everyone comes from such different perspectives, there are assumptions of values etc. (going back to the iceberg) so it’s hard to get definitive answers

Remembering the future: Durham 2011
Two sentences that for you describe the way things are in Durham 2011.  What’s the feeling & reality of belonging like? What does it look like?  What’s the environment like?  What surprises are there? (Individual comments)

  • Durham is taking a more productive approach to systematic barriers
  • Working more closely with schools to target at-risk youth.  Issues of school bullying will be addessed through greater programming
  • A model immigrant/newcomer centre assisting residents across the region with satellites everywhere – housing, employment supports, other govt services, all available. Volunteer-based agencies have a diverse group of volunteers – culture, age, ability, etc.
  • Durham is a place where the needs of even the most vulnerable citizens are met through adequate infrastructure and adequate program funding. celebrates unique gifts of all citizens
  • Population increase will lead to environmental issues – garbage, traffic affect everybody.  Newcomers adapt as they become part of education/church communities
  • Durham is engaged in inclusivity dialogues.  Agencies are collaborting to address needs and break down systemic barriers.
  • Conservation and environent drive the focus – because of globalization etc., complex needs have emerged.
  • We are marketing Durham through a regional statement that includes inclusivity.  There is a clear definition of what’s expected.  Workplaces more represenatative.  We can identify and treat root causes [of exclusion]
  • Durham has a strong regional image, rather than being community based as it was in 2006.  Services are now more fully integrated.  The new regional image is partly a result of the corridor being less of a population base – northern/other communities in Durham will continue to grow
  • There is less finger pointing, name calling, racism
  • I see green cars, green buildings, more mixed housing (seniors, young people), better transporation – improved infrastructure is beginning to reflect a maturing community
  • Durham is a tolerant diverse community where everyone’s values and rights are respected.  There’s a very low rate of crime and poverty.
  • I am retired.  I’m doing a lot of volunteering.  New social networks have sprung up, including an immigrant services centre that’s received multi-year core funding.
  • Durham is one community, not a region of individual communities. Services and supports are region-wide. It is a safe cultural community, with cultures respected throughout the region
  • Durham is a caring compassionate community that celebrates the strengths of diversity.  It is a true community where all stakeholders share strengths and weaknesses
  • Durham has become a diverse community with dynamic needs and strengths.  The social service sector made great strides but new issues have arisen which couldn’t have been predicted in 2006.
  • United Way of Durham region [has united].  I see a group of people of all cultures with different challenges working together, respecting challenges, and there’s a sign on the wall:  we did it together.
  • Multicultural groups are working together.  There are lots of cultural festivals every month, with lots of people participating from all groups.  Durham’s population has now doubled compared to five years ago, but now you see people from all cultures working together

Reminiscing: stay in 2011, reminisce about how you got to where you are.  Whatever it is you’re working on, how did you get there?  What steps did you take?
Vision & what made a difference [SEE FLIP CHARTS]

  • newcomer centre – “no wrong door” everyone welcome. Lots of satellite offices to make sure service available to everyone (long list of services).  Got here by:
    • developing numerous community partnerships with service providers from all areas
    • using current research
  • Durham is the place people want to move to because here they feel like a valued member of the community in all aspects.  Got here by:
    • seeking cooperative efforts in social services
    • using experiences and building on them to become more inclusive, respectful, place that provides everything people need to feel valued/included
  • steps:
    • is strength in coalitions working with common voice to one goal
    • involve men, youth; engage all stakeholders
    • mentors
    • revised electoral process

Where was the place of critical choice?

  • getting everyone to start to work together despite systematic issues with funding supports, fragmentation, etc. (who is missing and how do we invite them in [individuals, sectors]?)
  • working with MCSS to alter funding models to prevent issues with people holding their cards close because of funding
  • we’re not just talking about funded programs – you’re still part of the community even if you’re not part of social services – there are resources in the community.  If we had to do it without money, how would we do it?  (Moving out of a service model.)   Step out of the mindset that if this works, we’re out of a job – that is what we SHOULD be aiming for, that people wouldn’t need our services!  We tend to forget how we treat people when because of their circumstances we get paid every day.

What’s been helpful and where do you need more support in this work?

  • helpful – positive reinforcement that work is going down the right path.  Feel sometimes like a salesperson, constantly selling a vision, so it’s been nice to be with others thinking similarly. 
  • would be useful:  develop a more sophisticated toolbox of tools and techniques that can be used in community development.  Really concrete things you can use to engage people from really different groups, GM or a different culture or whatever is outside your area of comfort – how do you do that complex piece of work [specific to inclusion]? 
  • helpful – validated current project, helping with awareness of who’s missing and how to engage them
  • useful – how do I get the right question?  How do I know what I’m looking for?  How do I know specifically what I need?
  • helpful – nice to have collective reassurance that your work is in the same realm with others, that challenges aren’t unique (you’re not alone) and others are struggling with the same types of issues
  • support – in breaking down systematic barriers.  That’s the biggest thing – agencies can work together but unless there’s something is done structurally [to change] it makes it more difficult for people to work together
  • helpful – interaction
  • useful – planning for the future and where do we go from here (after everyone leaves today) – keeping momentum
  • helpful – all of us come together to share, help, mentor each other. 
  • support – engaging those who shrug it off as “it’s not my issue” – easier said than done!  Sooner or later everyone will see it as their issue, so why not do it right from the beginning?
  • Durham advisory committee on homelessness has reps from all kinds of sectors – isn’t it interesting that we can all unite so well around an issue when we see something needs to be done?  It’s been going for just about five years and part of the function is to advise the region and streamline the plan on homelessness.  No houses built, but getting there.  Just an observation – we do that really well.

 

Address: 180 Dundas Street West, Suite 1900 Toronto, Ontario Canada M5G 1Z8          Contact Us          Website Policy